The Gift Of Seeing Ourselves As Others Do
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I've never had more trouble with anyone, than
I've had with myself.
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— Dwight Moody
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Consideration
#1: Are you willing to ask
for and
accept feedback?
The best time to build a network is before
you need it.
The most advantageous time to advance your
business is when there is already some
momentum.
But the best time to get feedback is in
both good
and bad times.
In bad times, we need perspective and input for
course correction. In good times, we need to
be able
to ratchet up a few degrees and take
advantage of
opportunities, a healthy culture, terrific
customer
relationships, and/or an exceptional team.
The opportunity for feedback is always there.
The
real question to consider is whether you are
in a
place to be open, non-defensive, and willing to
consider what others see and say.
It takes a strong personal resolve to
become a
better leader as well as a willingness to
take some
things apart and put them back together.
Sometimes the process of feedback starts with a
corporate initiative, but 360 feedback works
the best
when there is a sincere willingness on the
part of the
participant to ask for and accept feedback.
Consideration
#2: Are you willing to
make
changes once you receive feedback?
The process of asking direct reports, peers,
bosses,
and often clients to provide input requires
time and
attention from them. Thank them
after you
receive the feedback and voice your
appreciation.
Then share some of the
comments and personally commit to making some
meaningful
changes.
Patrick Lencioni, author and coach, speaks of
a CEO
coaching client who wanted a 360-degree
report and
then began to aggressively confront his team
after he
received their feedback. "So you don't
think I'm
strategic enough? You don't think I make
well thought
out and timely decisions? You think I play
favorites?"
With Patrick at the back of the room observing,
everyone appeared intimidated by their boss'
defensive approach to feedback and resistance to
change. They replied "Oh no, you are
brilliantly
strategic. You are a superb decision maker.
Wow,
who wrote that feedback? What were they
thinking?
We have never seen you play favorites."
Patrick rolled his slightly rusted and
squeaky chair
from the corner of the room to the table. He
stood up
beside his CEO client and said, "Let's
start again.
First why, Mr. Client, would you commit to a 360
feedback process if you weren't going to change
anything and then turn around and shoot the
messengers? And gang, if you didn't write the
feedback, who did? You were the raters who
supplied
feedback."
The willingness to go through the
process of
obtaining 360 feedback requires that we value
others'
opinions, stay non-defensive, and make some
stated
and visible changes.
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No amount of sophistication is going to allay
the fact that all your knowledge is about the
past and all your decisions are about the future.
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— Ian Wilson, Former Chairman, General Electric
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Consideration #3: Are you willing to
objectively assess whether your strengths are
a good fit for your current role and
responsibilities?
Everyone has insecurities about whether
they are the right person for the job.
It can and usually is lonely being a manager
or leader. There isn't a way to satisfy
everyone and still get the right results from
the business. Sometimes the market
conditions change dramatically and new
leadership and new teams are required.
In our coaching we look for general themes that
support a good "match" of strengths to our
coaching
client's current position, as identified in
their 360
report. This means that our coaches must
understand
what is required of their coaching client in
terms of
performance and results. Everyone has
development
areas, blind spots, and weaknesses. There is
rarely
a perfect fit. But there are certain 360
indicators
that need to be in the "good to great"
column to
ensure a person's success in their current
role.
A leader or manager must have a drive to
actively
increase knowledge of the business and provide
visible leadership and clear direction. He
or she must
have the ability to attract great talent and
build the
team. In order to be effective, a leader must
have "good
to great" scores in the categories of
trustworthiness,
adaptation to change, professionalism, and
getting
things done in a timely fashion.
Consideration #4: Are you willing to
find an
accountability partner and keep the process
going?
In any change program, an accountability
partner is
the key to making the change and growth
sustainable. Whether with diet, exercise,
parenting,
overcoming addictions, or
professional
growth, built-in accountability provides the
long-term
results. Rarely do any of us have enough
insight
and stamina by ourselves to make behavioral
changes permanent.
Choose someone who has your best interests in
mind, is knowledgeable, and can provide
constructive
feedback. Select someone who can support and
coach you for a
minimum of six months.
Part of the reason that it is so difficult to
keep the
momentum is that we become
discouraged when we are making changes and no
one notices. That's because perceptions are
difficult to change. A lot of new
behavior has to be
demonstrated consistently over some period of
time
before anyone believes that it is more than a
passing
phase or quick band-aid.
Keily, Goldsmith, and Company conducted a study
measuring the impact of asking for feedback
and then
following up on perceived leadership
effectiveness.
The study was conducted with thousands of
leaders
who received feedback from direct reports via
a 360
Report.
The results were clear.
- Leaders who were seen as not responding to
feedback and not following up with their
direct reports
were viewed as unchanged or only slightly more
effective than they were 18 months earlier.
- Leaders who were seen as doing at least some
follow-up were seen as noticeably more
effective than they were 18
months earlier.
- Leaders who were viewed as doing
frequent
and consistent follow-up were rated
significantly more effective than they were
18 months
earlier.
Feedback, change, and improvement are never
a single event. They are all part of
an ongoing
process that needs continual feeding and
attention
from us and people who care about our
success. The
remarkable results from high quality feedback
create
stronger leaders who go on to create
better businesses and better
communities.
Help More. Judge Less.
Find out more about The
360
Solution.
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